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[WRITING] ๋งŽ์€ ์นœ๊ตฌ VS ์ ์€ ์นœ๊ตฌ ( A few friends VS Few friends )

by YUHA๐ŸŒน 2024. 9. 22.
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๊ธ€ ์“ฐ๋ฉด์„œ ์ปคํ”ผ ํƒ€์ž„~ (I'm drinking coffee writing this~)

 

๋‚˜๋Š” ํ•™์ฐฝ ์‹œ์ ˆ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์ ์€ ํŽธ์ด์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚ด MBTI๋Š” INFJ(์ธํ”„์ œ)์ด๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๋‹ค. ์ฆ‰, ๋‚˜๋Š” E(์™ธํ–ฅํ˜•)๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ I(๋‚ดํ–ฅํ˜•)๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ.

I have had few friends since my school days. My MBTI is also INFJ, I'm not the E(Extrovert) but the I(Introvert).

 

ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ฃผ๋ณ€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋‚ด ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์ด ๋ฌด์ฒ™ ํ•ด๋ง‘๋‹ค๋ฉฐ, ๋‚ด ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋ฌด์ฒ™์ด๋‚˜ ์™ธํ–ฅ์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์œผ๋กœ ๋ณธ๋‹ค.

However, people around me say that my first impression is very bright and also say that my first impression is very outgoing.

 

๋‚˜๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์˜์™ธ์˜€๋‹ค. ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๋‚˜๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์ด ์—†๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด๋‹ค.

I was always surprised that people said that. Because I don't have many friends.

 

์•„๋งˆ๋„ ๋ฉ”์ดํฌ์—… ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๊พธ๋ฏธ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ์„ฑํ–ฅ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ณธ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค.

Maybe that's how people saw me because my personality likes doing my makeup and dolling up.

 

๋ฉ”์ดํฌ์—…์„ ๋งŽ์ด ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๊พธ๋ฏธ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ•ด๋ง‘๊ฒŒ ์›ƒ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋‹ค ๋ณด๋‹ˆ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค๊ณผ์˜ ์•ฝ์†์ด ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค.

I'm the person who wears a lot of makeup and laughs brightly to doll up myself, so I look like the person who have a lot of plans with my friends.

 

 

ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‹ค์ƒ์€ ์ผ์ด ๋ฐ”๋น  1, 2๋‹ฌ์— ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์”ฉ ๋งŒ๋‚  ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค 3๋ช…๋ฐ–์— ์—†๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์™ธ๋กญ์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ์‹ค, ๋‚˜๋Š” ํ˜ผ์ž ์žˆ๋Š” ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ฌด์ฒ™์ด๋‚˜ ์ฆ๊ธด๋‹ค.

However, in reality, My friends and I are very busy with work, and I only have 3 friends whom I meet every 1 or 2 months. but I'm not lonely. In fact, I enjoy a lot of time being alone.

 

์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค๊ณผ ์–ด์šธ๋ ค ๋†€๊ธฐ๋ณด๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ณต๋ถ€์— ๋งค์ง„ํ•œ ๋•์— ๋Œ€ํ•™๊ต์—์„œ๋Š” ์ „์•ก ์žฅํ•™๊ธˆ(์ž…ํ•™๊ธˆ ํฌํ•จ)์„ ๋ฐ›์€ ์ ์ด 2๋ฒˆ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ํ† ์ต 960์ ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์—…์ ๋„ ์Œ“์•˜๋‹ค.

Because I concentrated on studying rather than hanging out with my friends, I received a full scholarship(including admission fee) twice at the college and achieved a TOEIC score of 960.

 

๊ฒŒ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ 20๋Œ€์˜ ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์„ ์„œ๋น„์Šค์ง์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ, ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ณ„๋กœ ์—†์–ด๋„ ์‚ฌํšŒ์„ฑ์€ ์ข‹๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์–ด์จŒ๋“  ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ง€๊ธˆ์˜ ๋‚ด ์‚ถ์— ์—„์ฒญ๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ์กฑํ•˜๋Š” ํŽธ์ด๋‹ค.

In addition, I spent most of my 20s working as a service worker, so my social skills are good even though I don't have many friends. And anyway, I'm extremely happy with my life right now.

 

 

๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ํ•œํŽธ์œผ๋กœ๋Š” ์š”์ฆ˜ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ์‚ถ์ด ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•˜๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๋‹ค.

 However, on the other hand, I am also curious about the lives of people who have many friends these days.

 

๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ์•ž์œผ๋กœ ์‚ฌํšŒ์—์„œ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ๋งŽ์ด ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค.

So I am thinking that I would like to be able to make many friends in society in the future.

 

์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์ ์€ ๊ฒƒ์—๋Š” ์žฅ์ ๊ณผ ๋‹จ์ ์ด ๋ชจ๋‘ ์žˆ๋‹ค. ์ฆ‰, ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์—๋„ ์žฅ์ ๊ณผ ๋‹จ์ ์ด ๋ชจ๋‘ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค.

Having fewer friends has both advantages and disadvantages. In other words, having many friends also has both advantages and disadvantages.

 

๋‚˜๋Š” ์นด๋ฉœ๋ ˆ์˜จ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณ€ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ถ ๋˜ํ•œ ๋ˆ„๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค.

I also want to enjoy my life with a lot of friends while I'm changing easily into a different person like a chameleon.

 

๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ทผ๋ฏธ๋ž˜์— ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์ง„๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋”์—†์ด ์ข‹๊ฒ ๋‹ค. ๐Ÿ˜Š

It will be great if it is done in the near future. ๐Ÿ˜Š

 

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